Seeing each other and dating
If you meet someone you like and spend several nights together in the first week, or spend multiple hours with them over the course of several days, you will typically start feeling a sense of intense emotional closeness.
To be safe, couples would serve themselves well to see each other once a week for the first month, and then increase the frequency with each week after that point."Believe it or not, commitment is the one thing that you should never rush in a relationship," dating expert Noah Van Hochman tells Bustle."..should take your time before your actions signify that the person you are with is without a doubt the one you envision your future with.Here are some reasons why the once-a-week rule is one to live by — or at least one to consider.That spark when you first meet someone who you click with can be totally intoxicating, but you don't want the bond to form too quickly.
The problem with this dynamic is that seeing each other too frequently in the very beginning forges an illusion of intimacy and dependence, even though each person truly knows that it takes months — or even years — to truly get to know someone."You hardly know someone, yet you're developing an emotional dependency on them — that's a scary thought.