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With people going on so many first dates, the likelihood of being ghosted, possibly repeatedly, increases.

Plus, with so much interaction today done via a screen and not face to face, ghosting can seem like the more natural option to slide out of a not-quite relationship. There’s not some guy walking around who didn’t think you were good enough to be his forever person.

We’re consciously uncoupling, having divorce parties, putting it all out there. Any adult understands that the silence isn’t without meaning. Melissa, 38, says that ghosting used to make her crazy but now she’s partial to it, especially since becoming a single parent.

No one is forced to tell anyone that they’re going to be real busy at work or that they’re moving to Yemen. “You see a guy isn’t worth your time faster this way, and it’s preferable because you don’t have much time to waste anyway.” What’s next?

Notice that the word is common, not polite or considerate.

I’ll call you tomorrow,” she said at the end of the best first date ever. You’ve been “ghosted.” The term is used most often to describe a sudden end to a potential romance, though it keeps expanding in our lexicon. Of course, there’s nothing exactly novel about cutting off contact with someone.

The New York Times has published half a dozen articles on the phenomenon in the last two years, from Charlize Theron ghosting Sean Penn to patients ghosting their doctors to a column just last week on friends ghosting friends. The current obsession with ghosting is likely related to the ongoing expansion of online dating.

The site will then begin to monitor all your e-mail messages and kick you off the system if it doesn’t like what you’re writing.” Afterward, break off the communication.

From then on, your approach is no reply, no comment, no nothing. If you think you have a problem prospect, even if you’re anonymous, don’t feel uncomfortable reporting the situation to the site operator (usually under abuse or Webmaster).

On some sites, the person also knows that you deleted it.

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Mar 19, 2017. I'll call you tomorrow,” she said at the end of the best first date ever. And then you never. The current obsession with ghosting is likely related to the ongoing expansion of online dating. With people going. Most of the articles on ghosting accept the premise that it is, by its very nature, rude. But it really isn't. 
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