Dating rules bullshit
Honestly, it’s not just the rules themselves that are highly problematic.
But first, let’s just dismiss the idea that how much sex you have or how quickly you have it has any bearing on your level of self-respect. Essentially, this rule wipes out anyone and everyone who isn’t interested in being in a relationship, although we’re sure she’s pretty much assuming everyone is (also utterly false Amber).
Treating sex as a taboo only stops us from feeling comfortable talking about what we like, what we want and how we should better educate people about sex.
The more we’re open about sex, the more we can have important discussions around porn, consent and sexual assault.
She said: ‘Guys there is no wrong or right answer to casual sex.
I was invited on to BBC five live to debate the matter.
It is essentially the same concept as using sex to get over someone, it’s still something you’re treating as an object, placed on a pedestal as if it’s an object to be gained and not a meaningful experience you will both enjoy.