Dating rules bullshit
If she is expecting commitment from her date, and is assuming that’s what all people want, we are here to give some hard truths.
Whether or not you have sex with someone right away or have sex with them in a month’s time has no impact on whether or not they will commit to you.
Regretting casual sex the morning after a night out is typically experienced by women, who have been socialized to think that casual sex isn’t ‘ladylike’ and so is something they should be ashamed of. Another phrase typically applied only to women and so sexist as hell, ‘put out on the first date’ implies sex is something you give away, as if you don’t enjoy it yourself or get something out of it.Equally, it's possible that her friends are envious of all the sexual experiences she’s had, being able to have great sex with someone and not have to deal with any commitment or emotional baggage afterward is just as much a reason for envy (if envy is even the right word) as the sexual connection you may have if you’ve only slept with one person.Amber then goes on to talk about using sex to get revenge on someone or get over someone, saying ‘when was that okay to have sex with someone as a weapon?Posting a video of her new rules on Twitter, she said, ‘I’ve been speaking to my friends about the question ‘is sex too casual?’ I think we need a new set of rules before saying yes to getting intimate’.
You are just as valuable and worthy of respect whether you have sex every single day with a new person or on the first date or within five minutes.