If you enjoy sports, look into leagues in your area and go out and join a team.
However be careful to pick hobbies that you are interested in.
If you join a society merely to meet potential dates, you may be disappointed in not finding any.
On the other hand if you do something you love, then your chances of meeting the right partner increases – best of all, if you meet someone nice then you and she have something important in common.
Don’t go by appearances While you may be looking for a butch woman, don’t have a watertight notion about what she should and should not behave like.
Lesbian writers and dating experts point out that there are several women looking for same-sex love who fit somewhere in between the two extremes of butch and femme and could be identified by all sorts of labels: femmy butches, soft butches, high femmes, blue jean femmes, bois and even trannies.
However before you pick one up, make sure she is single – like you would in a heterosexual dating scenario.
Look lovingly at your partner and maintain eye contact; if you have been getting along well, initiate some physical contact too.
You may try touching her in public as a definite signal that you would love to get close to her.
If you have an LGBT youth group at your college or perhaps church, join it.
You will get to talk to people who are going through some of the same issues you are facing and you might find a date.
Praise her A butch woman like to be told they look nice too.